Why parenting changes from eldest to youngest?

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 Have you ever noticed that parents who were strict with their eldest child, become so lenient with their younger children?? Ok, so I have noticed because in my case I was the eldest.😏And now when I see my parents being so tolerant to my younger siblings I am like, mom aren't u going to scold them. She is so cool with it now. 😥Back then I was so afraid to speak against my parents, a 'No' was a 'No'!! We couldn't question. But my younger ones they won't stop at a 'No.
   Now I have 3 kids and I am continuing the same. Strict with my eldest and my youngest gets away with everything😅. 
    So what I think happens is that we as parents are immature when we have our first child and their tantrums irritate an make us angry. But by the time our youngest arrives we r more matured parents and we become immune to tantrums. 
     Hmm, all I can say is if you were born the eldest, 😪I feel u. And if u were the youngest, lucky u😛. So if u are a new parent don't be too strict with ur eldest😅
  Maybe not all parents are like me. Lucky kids. But nevertheless parents are parents, however they are ,we will always love you 😘
 

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